Tuesday, August 20, 2019

2019 Book Reviews : round one

This year has been full on with welcoming a newborn, traveling to Africa and back with said newborn, traveling all over the US for work, homeschooling, prepping for adoption of our sweet daughter, and just making space for life.  So while I love to read, the pace has slowed but the enjoyment hasn't wained. Here are some of the books I've read thus far in 2019.

I hope these reviews are helpful and that you grab some, read them, and then come over and have coffee and talk about them!


The Ministry of Ordinary Places by Shannan Martin


The ministry of the ordinary was an incredible way to start the year! This book calls you back to the ordinary, mundane places of life and there, offer extravagant love, a listening ear, a cup of tea. In a time where fame is somehow a standard of ministry and often the catalyst to the polarization of society, Martin spins a simpler yet more profound narrative...love your neighbor, listen to the world around you with a tender heart, and humbly begin meeting needs. This is a wonderfully written book in a much needed space. 

And bonus: how cute is the cover!?!




If you have known me for any amount of time over the last 10 years you probably know of my adoration of Michelle Obama. I was so excited for this book to come out and y'all, it did not disappoint! This is one of those books that I slowed WAY down at the end because I just didn't want it to be over! (does anyone else do that?! ha!)  In Becoming, Michelle Obama tells her story from growing up in Chicago all the way to life after The White House. She is honest, genuine, and as always, tasteful and kind. This book will have you turning pages, smiling, laughing, crying, and in awe of the life that our former First Lady has lived. This book gets a ALL THE STARS from me. 



I received this book as a gift from one of my favorite New York creatives. He is funny, fun, and always gives thoughtful gifts to The Burger clan. I knew very little about Elizabeth Gilbert outside of her famous, Eat Love Pray, so I was excited to read Big Magic. This book was a fascinating look at the creative process from a worldview very different than my own. I was stretched in my thinking, amazed at the ideology she described, and am so glad I took the time to read it. As a creative, I am always fascinated to see inside the world of those who are writers, painters, musicians, and this book did just that.  Elizabeth, chapter by chapter, encourages the creative process by sharing hers and her view of the "magic" behind creating. And while I come to quite a few different conclusions about life, I learned a lot reading this book and am a better creative because of it.


The Path Between Us is a book designed to help you navigate relationships based on your Enneagram and the Enneagram of those around you. A few years back, although I never wrote a review on it, I read A Road Back To You, of which Stabile co-authored. Having studied the Enneagram through other books in my early twenties, when A Road Back To You began to make the Enneagram popular again, I decided to read it.  I never reviewed it because, since the other author is a four and I am a 7, I didn't exactly love it. (I won't expound on that because I don't want you to read A Road Back To You with my silly thoughts in your head) When I heard Suzanne had come out with her own book focusing more on the positive out workings of the Enneagram numbers, I grabbed my copy right a way.  I know that currently the Enneagram world of podcasts and books is saturated, but this book is worth pushing to the top of your list.  It is great for someone who knows NOTHING about the Enneagram and for someone who has studied it for years.  This book is easy to read, super insightful, and very practical. 



The Connected Child is one of those books that has been in my "queue" for YEARS. I have read articles, essays, listened to lectures, and followed the work of Karen Purvis over the years but never sat down and read completely through this famous work. As many of you know, we are in the process of adopting a little girl and this book was required reading assigned to us by our adoption agency. While this book's focus is particular to adopted children, it would be helpful for any parent to read. The Connected Child focuses on helping you parent a child who has had early life trauma. They focus on how to help in aiding your child through bonding and attachment, helping you identify special needs and in both learning and behavior, as well as how to discipline your child in a way that fosters love and care instead of fear. This is a fantastic book and I recommend it to anyone considering adoption! 



The Bible Tells Me So is a personal account of Enns's journey from a tight fisted "defending" of the Bible to an open hearted honesty about it. This book (and everything I have read by Enns) is such a refreshing look at how defending the Bible is not the extent of which it was created. To open our hearts and minds up to the stories of the Scriptures rather than fight about what it is or isn't telling us, is to get back to the heart of the Bible. This book will be a stretch for my friends who have spent their days defending the Bible, but it is well worth your time to hear from Enns. My faith has only grown deeper and stronger, and my love for Scripture more rich by reading Enns works. I encourage you, if you are a Bible believer or a total skeptic (or somewhere in between), to pick up a copy of this book with an open mind and heart and hear how this journey deepened Enns's faith. 

Hope you find some books to pick up from these reviews!  Thanks for always encouraging me to keep writing these! 




Happy Reading!

Tuesday, August 13, 2019

2018 Book Review (Part 3)

Y'all. I'm not sure what it says about me that it is August 2019 and I am just now posting my 2018 year end book reviews. It could allude to the fact that I had a baby, or that we've had a crazy travel season, or that I can't tell a lie and just lump these books into 2019 to make it look like I've been an amazing new-mom AND ultra reader, or maybe it is just that I don't make time for the little things that I enjoy, like writing. Who will ever know?

I ended 2018 with wonderful reading and somehow (must be subconsciously) this series of books all match the color scheme of my house! Apparently I was SUPER nesting. Haha!

Hope you take some time to scroll through and maybe pick up some of these to enjoy!

Imagine Heaven by John Burke 

Everyone I have ever known has questions and ideas about Heaven, what it is & what it isn't, who will be there, how will we know, and on and on. So many people/leaders are afraid to give answers, while simultaneously afraid of admitting they may not know. John Burke bravely enters the world and research of Near Death Experiences (NDE) with an open mind to see if what the Bible teaches about Heaven lined up with the testimonies of the hundreds who have had documented NDEs. This book is thrilling and had me crying, cheering, smiling, and in total awe. I have to admit, I was a little (read: A LOT) skeptical about NDEs going into this book, but the stories in this book made me so excited for what is to come. If you have ever lost a loved one, been afraid of life after death, wondered what the Bible actually taught about heaven, this book is for you.  Having gone through so many significant losses in my life, this book was a sweet balm for the grieving parts of my soul.

Boundaries for Your Soul by Allison Cook & Kimberly Miller

While I have been charged in the past with over stating my excitement by an abundance of superlative, please know there is NO WAY I can over state my recommendation of this book! It has the capacity to do so much healing in hearts and lives that I would buy it for each of you if I had the ability!  Cook and Miller lay out for us how "turn your shame to joy, your anger to advocacy, and your inner critic into your biggest champion." In such practical ways, they give us tools on how to engage our thoughts in a way that leads to action instead of shame. If you have a loud inner critic, if you battle anxiety or being overwhelmed, or if you feel like your darkness is too dark for God, this is a wonderfully helpful book. Grab a copy, buy two (or four) and share the love! 

A Million Little Ways by Emily Freeman


A Million Little Ways is beautiful and thoughtfully written. Emily Freeman, an artist herself, opens your heart to the artist with in you. With a little whimsy and a some wonderful story telling, she shows you how being made in the image of God, a creator Himself, makes you in your very essence, an artist. What ever your art may be, it is beautiful and significant. She helps you take the mundane and see it as the important elements of the beauty of your life.  


Dare to Lead: Brave Work. Tough Conversations. Whole Hearts by Brene Brown

If you have been around here for long, you already know that I am an avid Brene Brown reader. Her work has been helping shape my heart since my early twenties and for that I am forever grateful. Dare to Lead is a must read (and really work through with your teams!) for any leader. Vern and I both read it and then we went through it together as a His Voice Global team. While a lot of her work is helpful to your personal life, in Dare to Lead, she takes a journey into working as a team and helps aid you in living wholeheartedly as a leader & team member.  Grab a copy for all your people, and work together to be brave, have tough conversations and live wholeheartedly. 


Almost Everything: Notes on Hope by Anne Lamott

Anne Lamott is one of those authors that makes it hard to write a review. I mean, how do you review such a writer! In Almost Everything, Anne talks with such candor about just about every topic you could imagine, taking you into the depths of her despair and back out by offering her timeless inspiration. As a 7, (enneagram talk, hope it makes sense to you!) I ALWAYS have to read Lamott along side an light hearted author, not because she is a downer, but because she is such a candid realist that it makes my 7 heart wince. Her works always grow me and give me eyes to see things in a new light and her prose is, as always, impeccable. 

Remember God by Annie Downs

I am regularly amazed at the skill in which Annie Downs invites you into her life with such vulnerability yet does not over share to a bunch of strangers. In Remember God, Annie takes you on a journey through some parts of her life that didn't turn out they way she had always hoped. She lets you in on the struggle to see God in the midst of it all and in her usual sweet-hearted way, guides you to her anchor through it all. I left this book feeling like I had just had a friend over and we talked about the deepest things of life while simultaneously having a cup of coffee and laughing hysterically. This is a great read and a wonderful audio book! 

Thanks for always reading my reviews! I would love to hear what y'all have been reading! And *hopefully* I'll get some book reviews up from THIS ACTUAL YEAR! 

Happy Reading!